VINELA MOTI

Speak thoughtfully

Speak thoughtfully

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Once an old man spread rumors that his neighbor was a thief. As a result, the young man was arrested. Days later the young man was proven innocent. After being released he sued the old man for wrongly accusing him. In the court the old man told the Judge: "They were just comments, didn't harm anyone." The judge told the old man: "Write all the things you said about him on a piece of paper. Cut them up and on the way home; throw the pieces of paper out. Tomorrow, come back to hear the judgment." Next day, the judge told the old man: "Before receiving the judgment, you will have to go out and gather all the pieces of paper that you threw out yesterday."  The old man said: "I can't do that! The wind spread them and I won't know where to find them." The judge then replied: "The same way, simple comments may destroy the honor of a man to such an extent that one is not able to fix it. If you can't speak well of someone, rather don't say anything." "Let's all be masters of our mouths, so that we won't be slaves of our words."

The Power Of Focused Thoughts

Positive Healing

***I have been using this in my meditation for all whom were affected by Hurricane Sandy. Knowing love and healing know no distance.***

When you focus your thoughts in a positive healing way it can be used very successfully to aid in the healing of yourself, another, an animal, a plant, or even a situation!

All you have to do to start is find a quiet spot, no phones or disturbances. Now quietly listen to your breath, slowly and gently allow a sense of peace to come over you. Begin to fill yourself with a prevailing feeling of joy.

(An easy way to do this would be to think of something that fills you with unadulterated love, such as holding your own child, or maybe think of a puppy, use a thought that fills you full of pure compassionate love).

Feel this love and appreciation bubble up inside you. Now as you hold onto this feeling turn your thoughts to your chosen subject. In my case it is to all whom were affected by Hurricane Sandy.

Shower them with love.

You don't even have to spend a lot of time on this, just 5 minutes helps and this can be done while close to your subject, or from a distance, and no distance is too great.

Wishing everyone a safe and healthy holiday season.

Peace and Rain boots,

--- Copyright © 2012 Cynthia Farina

5 Tips To Stay Positive

Have you noticed how the small things in life affect your everyday living?

Did you get a cheery "good morning" at the breakfast table this morning or just a grumble? Did you give a warm smile and happy greeting in return? Do you look people in the eye and give them your undivided attention when they speak? Do you really listen for a reply when you ask someone a question? Do you really care or do you insulate yourself from the negative views you hear each day?

I hope your response was positive to all the questions above, for none of us wants to be that negative person in life. How do we remain positive, when so many negative things happen around us each day?

1. Make enthusiasm a daily habit. Wake up happy. Be thankful for the day ahead. Think positively early in the day. It can carry you through the hardest days. Don't let negative people predetermine your worth.
   
   
2. Don't be a grudge collector. We can all recite incidents in life when we felt slighted by someone, turned off by one's negative actions, or even insulted by someone. It's easy to rekindle a negative attitude if we continue to remember those occasions or react to them. Forget them. They're not worth reliving.
   
   
3. Don't brag. Get high in doing good for your own self-worth, not for recognition. If you seek to set yourself above others by your deeds, you could quickly find that you are inadequate instead of proud.
   
   
4. Have a positive support group. Make friends of those who have this same attitude about life. You'll find the mutual support of each other the reward you need to keep the proper positive attitude.
   
   
5. Give God the glory for what you have. Make everyday the best day possible. Once the day is gone, it is gone forever.

Live in the today. Keep hope for tomorrow. Live on His promises and keep the faith. But, live this and every morning with a Godly heart and your days will be filled with His blessings. 


--- Copyright © 2012 Bob Stoess
Bob Stoess is a Retired CEO, prolific writer and wonderful mentor.

The Night Before Christmas

It was the night before Christmas in Ghana and I was very sad because my family life had been severely disrupted and I was sure that Christmas would never come. There was none of the usual joy and anticipation that I always felt during the Christmas season. I was eight years old, but in the past few months I had grown a great deal.

Before this year I thought Christmas in my Ghanaian village came with many things. Christmas had always been for me one of the joyous religious festivals. It was the time for beautiful Christmas music on the streets, on radio, on television and everywhere.

Christmas had always been a religious celebration and the church started preparing way back in November. We really felt that we were preparing for the birth of the baby Jesus. Christmas was the time when relatives and friends visited each other so there were always people traveling and visiting with great joy from all the different ethnic groups. I always thought that was what Christmas was all about.

Oh, how I wished I had some of the traditional food consumed at the Christmas Eve dinner and the Christmas Day dinner. I remembered the taste of rice, chicken, goat, lamb, and fruits of various kinds. The houses were always decorated with beautiful paper ornaments. The children and all the young people loved to make and decorate their homes and schools with colorful crepe paper.

All of us looked forward to the Christmas Eve Service at our church. After the service there would be a joyous procession through the streets. Everyone would be in a gala mood with local musicians in a Mardi Gras mood.

Then on Christmas Day we all went back to church to read the scriptures and sing carols to remind us of the meaning of the blessed birth of the baby Jesus. We always thought that these were the things that meant Christmas.

After the Christmas service young people received gifts of special chocolate, special cookies and special crackers. Young people were told that the gifts come from Father Christmas, and this always meant Christmas for us. They also received new clothes and perhaps new pairs of shoes.

Meanwhile throughout the celebration everyone was greeted with the special greeting, "Afishapa," the Akan word meaning "Merry Christmas and Happy New Year." Oh how I wish that those memories were real tonight in order to bring us Christmas.

However, this Christmas Eve, things were different and I knew Christmas would never come. Every one was sad and desperate because of what happened last April when the so-called Army of Liberation attacked our village and took all the young boys and girls away.

Families were separated and some were murdered. We were forced to march and walk for many miles without food. We were often hungry and we were given very little food. The soldiers burned everything in our village and during our forced march we lost all sense of time and place.

Miraculously we were able to get away from the soldiers during one rainy night. After several weeks in the tropical forest we made our way back to our burned out village. Most of us were sick, exhausted, and depressed. Most of the members of our families were nowhere to be found. We had no idea what day or time it was.

This was the situation until my sick grandmother noticed the reddish and yellow flower we call "Fire on the Mountain" blooming in the middle of the marketplace where the tree had stood for generations and had bloomed for generations at Christmas time. For some reason it had survived the fire that had engulfed the marketplace.

I remembered how the nectar from this beautiful flower had always attracted insects making them drowsy enough to fall to the ground to become food for crows and lizards. We were surprised that the fire that the soldiers had started to burn the marketplace and the village did not destroy the "Fire on the Mountain" tree. What a miracle it was. Grandmother told us that it was almost Christmas because the flower was blooming. As far as she could remember this only occurred at Christmas time.

My spirits were lifted perhaps for a few minutes as I saw the flower. Soon I became sad again. How could Christmas come without my parents and my village? How could this be Christmas time, when we celebrate the birth of the Prince of Peace because since April we have not known any peace, only war and suffering? How could we celebrate as grandmother instructed us to do before she died? Those were the last words she spoke before she died last night.

As I continued to think about past joyous Christmases and the present suffering, we heard the horn of a car and not just one horn but several cars approaching our village. At first we thought they were cars full of men with machine guns so we hid in the forest. To our surprise they were not soldiers and they did not have guns. They were just ordinary travelers.

It seemed the bridge over the river near our village had been destroyed last April as the soldiers left our village. Since it was almost dusk and there were rumors that there were land mines on the roads, they did not want to take any chances. Their detour had led them straight to our village.

When they saw us they were shocked and horrified at the suffering and the devastation all around us. Many of these travelers began to cry. They confirmed that tonight was really Christmas Eve. All of them were on their way to their villages to celebrate Christmas with family and friends. Now circumstances had brought them to our village at this time on this night before Christmas.

They shared the little food they had with us. They even helped us to build a fire in the center of the marketplace to keep us warm. In the middle of all this, my oldest sister became ill and could not stand up.

A short time after we returned to our village my grandmother told me that my oldest sister was expecting a baby. My sister had been in a state of shock and speechless since we all escaped from the soldiers. I was so afraid for my sister because we did not have any medical supplies and we were not near a hospital.

Some of the travelers and the villagers removed their shirts and clothes to make a bed for my sister to lie near the fire we had made. On that fateful night my sister gave birth to a beautiful baby boy.

This called for a celebration, war or no war. Africans have to dance and we celebrated until the rooster crowed at 6 a.m. We sang Christmas songs. Every one sang in his or her own language. For the first time all the pain and agony of the past few months went away.

When morning finally came my sister was asked, "What are you going to name the baby?" would you believe for the first time since our village was burned and all the young girls and boys were taken away, she spoke. She said, "His name is "Gye Nyame," which means "Except God I fear none." And so we celebrated Christmas that night.

Christmas really did come to our village that night, but it did not come in the cars or with the travelers. It came in the birth of my nephew in the midst of our suffering. We saw hope in what this little child could do.

This birth turned out to be the universal story of how bad things turned into universal hope, the hope we found in the Baby Jesus. A miracle occurred that night before Christmas and all of a sudden I knew we were not alone any more.

Now I knew there was hope and I had learned that Christmas comes in spite of all circumstances. Christmas is always within us all. Christmas came even to our Ghanaian village that night.

--- Copyright © 1999 Peter E. Adotey Addo

Good one

" Like a river, always finding way round its obstructions, so am I. Nothing, absolutely nothing, is going to stop me from achieving my dreams because in me, God put a seed of greatness. That I know!"

willpower

" Your willpower to overcome every intention in life is a significant gift! Your meaning, purpose and goal will guide you to a better day! Choose to apply your unlimited gifts to others and guide them to the next level of positive encouragement! Fulfillment and satisfaction are yours for the taking! Take them and run with the wind!!! Do it every day and DO IT BIG!!!"

New Year

" The New Year is what you make out of it... it does not come with goodies but with Hope to create Opportunities."

fight what you want

If you don't fight for what you want, then don't cry for what you lost.

चाहतों की हद

चाहतों की हद तक चाहा उसे, सिर्फ अपना दिल निकाल कर उसे दिखा न सके.

ठोकरें

ठोकरें खाकर भी न संभले तो मुसाफिर का नसीब,

वर्ना.. पत्थर तो अपना फ़र्ज़ निभा ही दिया करतें हैं,

भूलने में वक़्त लगेगा

तुम्हे भूलने में कुछ वक़्त लगेगा,

और वो कुछ वक़्त, जिंदगी है मेरी..

कंगाल बने बैठे

बरक्क्तें चाहते तो झोलियाँ भर ली होती अपनी हमने,

किसी एक की चाहत में बस यूं ही कंगाल बने बैठे हैं हम…..

तारीख़ बदली है

तारीख़ हज़ारों साल में बस इतनी सी बदली है.. 

तब दौर था पत्थर का, अब लोग हैं पत्थर के....

बेवफाई का हिसाब

अपनों की बेवफाई का हम भी आखिर, कितना हिसाब रखते,

एक आईना रख लिया है जेब में, उन को खुद का चेहरा दिखाने के लिए.

- मधु गजाधर

खता

खता तो जब हो कि हम हाले दिल किसी से कहें,

किसी को चाहते रहना कोई खता तो नहीं.

रात भर जागने का मज़ा

फ़क्त ख्वाबों से ही नहीं मिलता सकूं सोने का मेरे दोस्त, 

किसी की याद में रात भर जागने का भी अपना मज़ा है...... !!

उम्र मुहब्बत

तू मिला है तो ये एहसास हुआ है,

ये मेरी उम्र मुहब्बत के लिए थोड़ी है.

इज़हार-ए-मुहोब्बत

इज़हार-ए-मुहोब्बत यूं कोई गुनाह तो नहीं है लेकिन,

गैरों से कर के इज़हार इसे, गुनाह उस ने बना डाला 

-मधु गजाधर

खुश्क आँखों से रोना

खुश्क आँखों से रोना ये हुनर नहीं, मजबूरी है हमारी...

तुझे दुनिया की नज़रों में गिराना, हमें आज भी मंज़ूर नहीं 

-मधु गजाधर

इंसान

मुझे देख कर तेरी हैरानी लाज़मी है,

इस दौर में इंसान कम ही मिला करते हैं।

हदें

हदें ही तो पार नहीं की कभी हमने 

और खुद को हद के पार देख लिया

Happiness for others

Forget your own sadness by creating a little happiness for others. Because when you are good to others, you are best to yourself.

relationships

Many relationships can be saved if we understand that people aren't difficult but that some of them are just different.

Situation and People

There are two types of person in this world. One who controls the situations and other who is controlled by the situations.

Broken People

Broken people are dangerous because they know they can survive......

Argument is bad but Discussion is good

Argument is bad but Discussion is good because argument is to find who is right. Whereas discussion is to find out what is right.

Relations

Relations never break we just reduce communication. Relation once made cannot be broken because hearts are always connected and the care does not fade.

Live like walking legs

Live like a pair of walking legs. The foot that is ahead has no pride and the foot behind has no shame because they both know their situation will change.

Truth

Truth is always like oil in water. No matter how much water you add, oil always floats on top always believe in truth and true relations.

Understand you

You will not find any one who will understand you, but you will get plenty of people who will expect that you should understand them.

पाकीज़ा सज़ा

हम अपने दुश्मन को भी पाकीज़ा सज़ा देते हैं पारस ♥
हाथ उठाते नहीं सिर्फ नज़रों से गिरा देते हैं ..!!!

फुर्सत किसे है

तुझे जाना है ग़र ए ज़िन्दगी तो जा..अभी ही जा..

यहाँ फुर्सत किसे है जो तेरे नखरे उठाएगा...huh.:-)))

-कविता'किरण'

Friends

Friends are like street lights along the roads. They don't make the distance any shorter but they light up the path and make the walk easy and safe.

No one can steal the art

Bird asked Bee: After hard work you prepare honey but man steals it. Don't you feel sad? Bee: Never, he can steal honey, not the art of making it.

Trapped

The entire water in the ocean can't sink a ship unless it gets trapped into it.

Life

You want and you get that is luck, you want and you wait that is time, you want and you earn that is ability, you want but you compromise that is life.

True relation

Wrong kind of people hates you for good in you. But right kind of people love you even after knowing bad in you. That makes perfect definition of a true relation.

Life

Life never turns the way we want but we live the best way we can. There's no perfect life, but we can fill it with perfect moments. Stay happy.

No one is perfect

No one in this world is pure and perfect. If you avoid people for their mistakes, you'll always be alone in this world. So judge less and love more.

Life

Life does not make you or break you. It's our own mentality that decides. So never hesitate, never feel low, wear a smile and steal the show.

चाहतों की हद..

चाहतों की हद तक चाहा उसे, सिर्फ अपना दिल निकाल कर उसे दिखा न सके.....

मुझे रोता सुना....

हाय मुझे रोता सुना लेकिन.. न इतना भी कहा उसने..

के है ये शोर सा कैसा.. बसे दीवार रोने का.....

खैराती ख़ुशी ..

मुझे खैरात में मिली ख़ुशी अच्छी नहीं लगती.. 
अपने ग़मों में भी रहता हूँ मैं नवाबों की तरह....

अपना

अपना समझ कर जिसके लिए उजड़ गए हम, 

कल शाम जा रहा था वो किसी अजनबी के साथ....

फिर नहीं बसते वो दिल

फिर नहीं बसते वो दिल, जो एक बार उजड़ जाते हैं,

कब्रें जितनी भी सजा लो, वहां रौनक नहीं होती.....

Wise to Otherwise

The wise never marry. And when they marry they become otherwise

Trust

The Two Reasons Why We Don't Trust People...
FIRST : We Don't Know Them...!!
SECOND : We Know Them...!!

Happiness

Everyone wants happiness, no one needs pain, but it's not possible to get rainbow without a little rain. So enjoy every drop of water either from sky or eye.

Three sides of story

Don't Believe Everything You Hear Or You See,
There Are Always Three Sides To Every Story....
"Yours", "Their", & "Truth"...

People are not beautiful by look

People are not beautiful as they look, as they walk and as they wear. People are beautiful as they help as they care and as they share.

Two tips

Two beautiful tips to stand strong in every condition: Never take help of tears to show your emotions and never take help of words to show your anger.

Help friends

Golden words from Shakespeare: Help your friend in problem without invitations but don't go to your friend in happiness without invitations.

Frustration and Success

When ambition exceeds performance, the gap is called frustration and when the performance exceeds ambition,the overlap is called success.

Money can't buy

It is always good to check once in a while and make sure that you have not lost the things that money cannot buy.

Pressure of life

The entire water in the ocean cannot sink a ship unless it gets trapped into it. All the pulls and pressures of life can never harm unless we let them in.

Power of Togetherness

Alone I can say, but together we can talk. Alone I can smile, but together we can laugh. Alone I can enjoy, but together we can celebrate. That's the beauty of good relationship. 

Words Power

Words don't have the power to hurt you unless the person who said it means a lot to you.

Negative attitude

Negative attitude is like a punctured tyre. You cannot reach anywhere until you change it 

Better be silent sometimes

Sometimes it's better to be silent than to tell others what you feel. Because it hurts badly when you come to know that they can hear you but can't understand.

Never Forget

Never Forget

 

Never stop caring for the little things in Life,
Never stop dreaming or give into strife.

 

Never stop building bridges that leads
to promising tomorrows,
Never stop trying or give into sorrow.

 

 

Never stop smiling and looking forward
to each new day, but most of all
never stops shining in your own special way.

 

 

Never forget that all storms can clear,
The grayest sky can turn pure blue.
Remember, Brighter Tomorrows are near...

 

True Story

An atheist professor of philosophy speaks to his class on the problem science has with God, The Almighty.
He asks one of his new students to stand and.....

Prof:
So you believe in God?

Student:
Absolutely, sir.

Prof
: Is God good?

Student:
Sure.

Prof:
Is God all-powerful?

Student
: Yes..

Prof:
My brother died of cancer even though he prayed to God to heal him.
Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill. But God didn't. How is this God good then? Hmm? size=2>
(Student is silent.)

Prof:
You can't answer, can you? Let's start again, young fella. Is God good?

Student:
Yes.

Prof:
Is Satan good?

Student
: No.

Prof:
Where does Satan come from?

Student:
From....God...

Prof:
That's right. Tell me son, is there evil in this world?

Student:
Yes.

Prof:
Evil is everywhere, isn't it? And God did make everything. Correct?

Student:
Yes.

Prof:
So who created evil?
(Student does not answer.)

Prof:
Is there sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness? All these terrible things exist in the world, don't they?

Student:
Yes, sir.

Prof:
So, who created them?
(Student has no answer.)

Prof:
Science says you have 5 senses you use to identify and observe the world around you.
Tell me, son...Have you ever seen God?

Student:
No, sir.

Prof:
Tell us if you have ever heard your God?

Student:
No, sir.

Prof:
Have you ever felt your God, tasted your God, smelt your God? Have you ever had any sensory perception of God for that matter?

Student:
No, sir. I'm afraid I haven't.

Prof:
Yet you still believe in Him?

Student:
Yes.

Prof:
According to empirical, testable, demonstrable protocol, science says your GOD doesn't exist.
What do you say to that, son?

Student:
Nothing. I only have my faith.

Prof:
Yes. Faith. And that is the problem science has.

Student:
Professor, is there such a thing as heat?

Prof:
Yes.

Student:
And is there such a thing as cold?

Prof:
Yes.

Student:
No sir. There isn't..
(The lecture theatre becomes very quiet with this turn of events.)

Student
: Sir, you can have lots of heat, even more heat, superheat, mega heat, white heat, a little heat or no heat..
But we don't have anything called cold. We can hit 458 degrees below zero which is no heat, but we can't
go any further after that.
There is no such thing as cold . Cold is only a word we use to describe the absence of heat
. We cannot measure cold. Heat is energy  Cold is not the opposite of heat, sir, just the absence of it .
(There is pin-drop silence in the lecture theatre.)

Student:
What about darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as darkness?

Prof:
Yes. What is night if there isn't darkness?

Student :
You're wrong again, sir. Darkness is the absence of something. You can have low light, normal light, bright
light, flashing light.....But if you have no light constantly, you have nothing and it's called darkness, isn't it? In
reality, darkness isn't. If it were you would be able to make darkness darker, wouldn't you?

Prof:
So what is the point you are making, young man?

Student:
Sir, my point is your philosophical premise is flawed.

Prof:
Flawed? Can you explain how?

Student:
Sir, you are working on the premise of duality. You argue there is life and then there is death, a good God and a bad God. You are viewing the concept of God as something finite, something we can measure. Sir, science can't even explain a thought.. It uses electricity and magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one.To view death as the opposite of life is to be ignorant of the fact that death cannot exist as a substantive thing. Death is
not the opposite of life: just the absence of it.
Now tell me, Professor.Do you teach your students that they evolved from a monkey?

Prof:
If you are referring to the natural evolutionary process, yes, of course, I do.

Student:
Have you ever observed evolution with your own eyes, sir?
(The Professor shakes his head with a smile, beginning to realize where the argument is going.)

Student:
Since no one has ever observed the process of evolution at work and cannot even prove that this process is an on-going endeavor, are you not teaching your opinion, sir? Are you not a scientist but a preacher? (The class is in uproar.)

Student:
Is there anyone in the class who has ever seen the Professor's brain?
(The class breaks out into laughter.)

Student
: Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor's brain, felt it, touched or smelt it? No one appears to have done so. So, according to the established rules of empirical, stable, demonstrable protocol, science says that you have no brain,sir.
With all due respect, sir, how do we then trust your lectures, sir?
(The room is silent. The professor stares at the student, his face unfathomable.)

Prof:
I guess you'll have to take them on faith, son.

Student:
That is it sir... The link between man & god is FAITH . That is all that keeps things moving & alive.

NB: I believe you have enjoyed the conversation...and if so...you'll probably want your friends/colleagues to enjoy the same...won't you?....
this is a true story, and the

student was none other than .......




..... APJ Abdul Kalam,

    The former President of India.   

 

Love

There is never a time or place for true love..

 it happens accidentally in heartbeat, In a single flashing. Throbbing moment

Everyone is Good

Everyone is good to you till you expect nothing from them and you are too good to them only till you full fill their expectations.

वो किसका है

मैं उसका हूँ यह राज़ तो वो जान गया है फ़राज़ ...

वो किसका है यह सवाल मुझे सोने नहीं देता .........!!

Try to be you can

Don't try to be something you're not, Be something you know you can be.

Spice on Tongue

Do not worry too much about sugar in the blood. Worry about spice on the tongue and salt in the heart.

Way to do impossible

Start by doing what's necessary, then what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible.

Character

The care and affection which you get from others. Is the gift of your own character.

Everyone gets the turn

When river overflows, the fish eats ants. But when water dries, the ants eat fish.Life gives chances to everyone just we have to wait for turn.

Emotions

"Don't let your emotions control your personality;

Let your personality control your emotions."

ताल्लुकात की क़ैद

उसने मुझे.... अपने ताल्लुकात की क़ैद में रखा है.........

ना मेरा होता है.......ना मुझे किसी और का होने देता है .........

शदीद प्यास

शदीद प्यास थी ....फिर भी हमने ना छुआ ....पानी को ....
हम देखते रहे ........दरिया तेरी रवानी को ........

एक समन्दर है .......जो मेरे काबू में है .......

एक समन्दर है .......जो मेरे काबू में है ...

पर....एक कतरा है ....जो मुझसे संभाला नहीं जाता ......

एक उम्र है .......जो मुझे बितानी है तेरे बगैर ....

पर .....एक लम्हा है ........जो मुझसे काटा नहीं जाता ..

हथेली की सब लकीरें

गोद डाली हैं चाकू से अपनी हथेली की सब लकीरें मैंने ,

जिन लकीरों से तू मिला है मुझ को ,कहीं वो बदल ना जाएँ ....

हाथों की लकीरों पर

कुर्बान जाऊं उस शक्स की हाथों की लकीरों पर...
जिसने मुझे माँगा भी नही और अपना बना लिया...!!..

नादानी की हद

नादानी की हद है ज़रा देखो तो उसे 
मुझे खो कर वो मेरे जैसा ढून्ढ रहा है!!

मुक़दर

मुझे मालूम है मेरा मुक़दर तुम नहीं हो लेकिन,

मेरी तकदीर से छुप कर मुझे एक बार मिल जाओ!!!!! 

तलाश -ऐ - जवाब

सवाली नज़रों से....मुझे देखा न करें आप 
डूब जाऊं न इनमे......मैं तलाश -ऐ - जवाब में '' 

हकीकत या फरेब

कुछ लोग हकीकत होते है या फरेब आँखों का....... 

न दिल से निकलते हैं....   न ज़िन्दगी में आते है...... 

true love is madness

No one can do love intelligently, because the nature of true love is madness.

बहाना

जहन पर बोझ ये इंतज़ार का, उफ़ ! भला हम उठायें कब तक,

तू आना ना चाहे तो दिल रखने को मेरा, कोई बहाना तो लिख कर भेज 

दिल का जेवर

गिरवीं रखा था किसी के पास दिल का जेवर बहुत दिन हुए,

उसे छुडवाने में .........आह ! मेरी जिंदगी ही निकल गयी ....

Givers and Takers

There are two kinds of people "Givers and Takers". The Takers may eat better but the Givers sleep better.

Better Tomorrow

We work for a better tomorrow yet when tomorrow comes, instead of enjoying, we again think of a better tomorrow.

Happiness in Life

The happiness of my life depends upon the quality of my thoughts but the quality of my thoughts depends upon the people in my life.

That's Life

Sometimes we struggle to finish a tasteless cup of coffee and then we find sugar lying at the bottom. 'THAT'S LIFE'. Sweetened but not stirred well. 

Expecations

Expectation is a gift not a liability because when people expect something from you, it means you have given them reasons to believe in you.

Understanding

An understanding means absence of misunderstanding. A Relationship does not depend on how good understanding we have but on how best we avoid misunderstanding.

Expectations

Expectations are a gift, not a curse. When people expect something from you, it means you have given them reasons to believe in you.

Happier Life

Life can be happier and stressless if we remember one simple thought, we can't have all that we desire, but time will give us all that we deserve.

Power spoils

You need power, only when you want to do something harmful. Otherwise, love is enough to get everything done.

Trust & Love

Trust a person to that extent, that he feels guilty to cheat you and love a person to that extent, that he fears to lose you.

Victory

Victory is not the property of brilliants. It is the crown for those who bend themselves in frontof hard work, honesty and confidence.

Love & Hate

We love ourself even after making so many mistakes, then how can we hate others for their small mistakes? So make habit of forgiving.

Cheat

If you succeed in cheating someone, don't think that the person is a fool.
Realize that the person trusted you much more than you deserved.

Problems

Be selective with whom you want to share your problems because there are
only a few who care, others are just curious..

Golden rules for successful life

1. Be honest when in poverty 

2. Be simple when in wealth 

3. Be polite when in authority

4. Be silent when in anger !!!

time of need

Never feel bad if people remember you only at the time of their need. Feel privileged that they think of you like a candle in the darkness of their life.

 

वन्देमातरम

चलो चलते हैं मिल-जुल कर वतन पर जान देते हैं, 

बहुत आसान है, कमरे में वन्देमातरम कहना ........"

(मुनव्वर साहिब)

गैरों की भीड़ में कोई अपना

इस शहर में पत्थर कहाँ से आके लगा मुझे "दोस्तों" . . .

लगता है इन गैरों की भीड़ में कोई अपना ज़रूर है !

Mix words

Do not mix words with your mood because you will have many chances to change the mood but you will never get any chance to change spoken words.

Who said No to me

Golden words of Einstein: "I am thankful to those who said NO to me. It is because of them that i did it myself."

नींदें ग़िरवीं हैं

नींदें ग़िरवीं हैं उसके पास … मोहब्बत कर्ज़ ली थी जिससे....

Relationship

Relationships are becoming Harder because: Conversations became Texting;) ...Arguments became Phone Calls and Feelings became Status Messages..

गुफ्तगू

माना के तुम गुफ्तगू के फन में माहिर हो फ़राज़ 

वफ़ा के लफ्ज़ पे अटको तो हमें याद कर लेना 

Stress

If stress burned calories, I'be a supermodel.

Words

Do not mix words with your mood because you will have many chances to change the mood but you will never get any chance to change spoken words. 

आवारा अलफाज़

छींटे बहुत ज़िद्दी हैं....तुम्हारे आवारा अलफाज़ों के..

इक उम्र गुजर गयी....इनको छुड़ाने की ज़िद में ..

Tips on Mobile Maintenance

Looking after your mobile helps to ensure it has a long and productive life.  There are 8 easy maintenance tips to help you get the best out of your mobile phone. All of the points below should also apply to your battery, charger and any other accessories.

 

KEEP YOUR MOBILE:

 

1.     Charged: Ensure your battery is fully charged, and then completely run it down before recharging. Recharging too early causes your battery to run out of power more quickly.

 

2.     Secure: For security reasons, enable the PIN on your SIM Card and Phone-lock on your phone to avoid unauthorized used. These security checks will also be activated when the phone is power cycled. You can check with your carrier or the phone manual for the features and also for information on blocking your SIM card and phone IMEI number if the phone is stolen.

 

3.     Protected: Make sure you use a keypad lock to lock your phone. Unplanned calls can cost a fortune and even though your phone may be in a safe place, such as in a bag, your phone will still get knocked around to a surprising degree. Rough treatment can damage electronic circuit boards so avoid dropping or unnecessarily shaking your phone.

 

4.     Battery: Be safe with your batteries. Use only genuine batteries from your phone manufacturer and only buy from authorized dealers. Going for the cheap option of a counterfeit battery can be dangerous.

 

5.      Clean: Don't use harsh detergents, cleaning solvents or harsh chemicals to clean your phone. Wipe only with a soft cloth.

 

6.     Covered: a protective cover will help repel dust and dirt, and prevent scratches. Make sure the cover you choose is of good quality. Low quality covers with no air pockets can damage you phone by creating humidity inside the cover.

 

7.     Storing your phone: Always store your phone in a dry place. Avoid rain, high humidity and liquids. All of these may contain minerals that could corrode the electronic circuits.

 

8.     At the right temperature: To ensure a long life, keep your phone in a stable temperature. Avoid exposing your phone to liquid and/or exposing your phone to extreme temperature change from hot to cold and vice versa. This might create condensation and damage the phone.

Success in life

Two things define your success in life. The way you manage when you have nothing. The way you behave when you have everything.

कौन उजड़ा

कौन उजड़ा होगा भरी दुनिया में हमारी तरह

तू भी न मिला हम को, और खुद को भी हम गँवा बैठे...... 

Lie

SPEAK a LIE once...,
&
All your TRUTHS will become QUESTIONABLE...!!!! 

खुद से भी बिछड

यूँ ना खींच अपनी तरफ मुझे बेबस कर के "मोहसीन  " 
"कि खुद से भी बिछड  जाऊ और तू भी ना मिले 

Judge people

People who Judge Everyone Else. .Need to Put Down the Magnifying Glass and Pick up a Mirror. .

Opinions

Opinions are like wrist watches. Everyone's watch shows different time from others, but all believe that their time is accurate.